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Warlord99
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posted: 2013-02-03 18:17:21 (ID: 80495) Report Abuse |
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not to mention i have no money to drink on anyways
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JonnyP
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posted: 2013-02-03 18:36:06 (ID: 80498) Report Abuse |
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Warlord99 wrote:
thats the thing it was my fault she left in the first place; i should have just let the joke die when it did; then none of the fighting would have even happened, she truly is the one for me i know in my heart she is; You may not like what I going to say, but if she was truly the one for you, you wouldn't have had to let the joke die.... because it would never have happened, she would not have allowed it. It sounds like you are better off rid of her. It hurts now, it will hurt for a while, but the pain will ease. |
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| posted: 2013-02-03 19:07:41 (ID: 80508) Report Abuse | |
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I can't put enough emphasis on this, but here goes:
LET. HER. GO. DO. NOT. CHASE. HER. All you'll do is prolong your agony. To be blunt, if she truly felt for you as you did her, then she wouldn't have made out with another guy. I know that's a hard, cold statement which may be tough to read, but I've been where you are - I think most, if not everyone, on this site has. One has to be completely honest with oneself, especially about affairs of the heart. In short, keep it real, especially about love. Keep moving forward. There are plenty of other women out there for you. Find a young lady who will be with you for who you are and not try to change you. Love doesn't make us blind, it makes us stupid. Don't be stupid - be inspired. Last edited on 2013-02-03 19:09:17 by dpierce |
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MTS1972
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posted: 2013-02-03 19:27:13 (ID: 80510) Report Abuse |
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if its meant to be, you'll find a way back together without it being forced. if its not, you wont.
We've all been there dude (well, maybe all of us apart from wadders and hosh) - give it time and let some of the emotion go out of it so you can look at things rationally and objectively. you cant make head nor tail of things when youre angry, upset and hurting. good luck fella and keep smiling - sometimes its all ya can do  |
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Warlord99
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posted: 2013-02-05 01:00:23 (ID: 80719) Report Abuse |
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well i went and saw a wiccan friend today and he helped me a lot; and confirmed a few things for me so the good news is he sees through the reading he gave me that we're going to at least mend things; now wether we date or not again is another story but...at least at some point in the next 3 months things will be mended
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JonnyP
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posted: 2013-02-05 01:17:05 (ID: 80720) Report Abuse |
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I'd steer clear of that mumbo jumbo, it can screw with your head worse than any drink or drugs!
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Warlord99
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posted: 2013-02-05 04:06:53 (ID: 80725) Report Abuse |
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its not mumbo jumbo; idc if you dont believe in it but i do; and she agreed to meet with me though she wants to set up the time to meet; which is fine by me after all im the one who got violent and scared her; i technically dont deserve a meeting but she even said she still loves me it just couldnt go on like it was; and from what my friend jesse told me he even said things will be mended and that he knows based on the cards; past experience; and my premonition; that we are going to get back together we just have to both be stable and take it a lot slower than we did at first
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oddball
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posted: 2013-02-05 09:31:11 (ID: 80745) Report Abuse |
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1 question this guy that kissed her.. did she stop him?.
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Warlord99
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posted: 2013-02-06 10:01:08 (ID: 80988) Report Abuse |
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yes; she did from what she told me and i believe her; now granted i still personally wanted to deal with it myself (though thered be one less man in the world) but just to u p d a t e you all; she sent me another message today saying how much she wished id been home when she came to pick up some paperwork (shes living at a friends place for now) and how much she still loves and misses me and wants to work things out. Plus i made her a wood burning today of 2 dragons forming a heart
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oddball
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posted: 2013-02-06 10:36:44 (ID: 80992) Report Abuse |
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good luck WL. personally i wouldn't give up my career or anything else for that matter.
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